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Are You Passionate or Professional?

Are You Passionate or Professional?

I find it helpful sometimes to look at my vocation as a homeschooling mom through the lenses of other careers. So hang with me for a little thought experiment.

Imagine for a second you’re a pediatric medical provider. Let’s compare two ways you could approach your career.

One charges little, but it’s obvious she loves kids and cares a ton. She’s a bit frazzled from the years of fighting with and losing to insurance companies, but she always smiles and chats cheerfully with patients and their parents.

The other is polite, likes kids enough to have gotten into the field at least, charges a bucketload (up front, of course), and only sees kids for their reevaluations—she outsources the weekly appointments.

Both are indomitable entrepreneurs, both highly trained and skilled providers.

Are you the busy, probably struggling financially, but heart-full provider, bootstrapping your way through your workday?

Or are you the nice provider with a nice house and up-to-date practice, who gives a kid a toy but asks that it not be used on the walls (it’s intended purpose) because they were recently painted?

Enthusiastic, deep passion for your vocation or nice, neat professionalism?

Both “get the job done,” but what impression will each type of adult leave on the kids in their care? How would you define “success?”

Homeschooling is and it isn’t a job to get done. “Doing a good job” homeschooling our kids doesn’t take the same sorts of training required in medicine, but we do need knowledge, resources at our disposal, and the ability and dedication to carry out the task everyday, every year. This is a marathon.

More important than all of that, though, is the light we bring. The care, the softness. The spazzy joy, the willingness to let loose and act silly.

Connection. Light. Passion.

Will you bring neatness and professionalism, or will you bring light and passion? If you want to bring neatness (a good thing), How will you do it? Rigidly and loudly, or gently, joyfully?

Let’s go with light today, shall we?

Rhiannon Kutzer

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I’m Rhiannon.

You can call me Rhi for short (as in “rejoice”). I’m a fiercely independent homeschooling mom of five, a Navy wife of 13 years, and a creator of various things: articles, a semi-regular newsletter, quilts, furniture, and the occasional knitted scarf. This is the site where I write about our homeschool journey and news and happenings in the homeschool world. more about me.

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The hard part is figuring out where I want to aim, with the 5-year gap between E. and S., and then L. being a newbie to full-on school. Having moved twice in 2019, I nixed MT and just focused on individual work. That came with costs. Shakespeare, Plutarch, art study, and composer study suffered. Memory work barely happened at all. I was BUSY. We missed out on discussing things together. Now that we’re settled, it’s time to restart MT.
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This term I’ve decided to aim Shakespeare and Plutarch at the oldest, while the girls listen in and do handwriting/drawing/fine motor. I won’t ask them for much narration. Our reading schedule for these is AMBITIOUS. Maybe crazy. Then we’ll do all the memory & read aloud stuff that suits everyone. These lessons are SHORT. Then E. will go do his individual work while I read aloud w/ just the girls.
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Also, “Morning Time” is a misnomer, considering we break it up throughout the day. It should really be called Morning/Lunch/Nap Time. I need a new name. Circle Time? Except we don’t sit in a circle. Together school? Except we’re together doing school all day. I don’t think English has the word I’m looking for. Maybe Tertulia or Salon?
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Our actual coursework is: the Scottish Play, Plutarch is Alexander the Great’s life, our artist is Gustave Courbet, composer is Paganini, Bible memory is Psalm 46, Hymn is Jesus, Savior, Pilot Me, read alouds will rotate from Burgess Bird Book, Trial and Triumph, Blue Fairy Book, Voyage of the Dawn Treader, Vanderbeekers, & picture books. Timeline is from Classical Conversations. Poems are Charge of the Light Brigade, Winter Night by Teasdale, and The Land of Nod.
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Whew! It’s gonna be a fun term! What do you guys do for Morning Time?
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